As initiation schools take center stage across various towns and provinces in South Africa, young boys aged 16 and above prepare to embark on a sacred circumcision tradition in the mountains. This season marks a crucial time lasting one to three months, where parents and their sons diligently prepare for the initiation school.
While the prospect of transitioning from boys to men is met with excitement, an underlying question surfaces: who holds the authority to choose the initiation school—the parent or the young boy? Some boys feel compelled by parents and relatives to attend undesired places, attributing blame if they stray in the future.
Amidst the fervor of traditional preparations, families engage in brewing beers, dances, and poems. However, on another front, there are instances of familial discord, with uncles accusing sisters of poisoning parents.
This celebratory period offers young boys an opportunity to learn responsible behavior, becoming role models for their younger siblings. The atmosphere is charged with mixed emotions as parents proudly purchase clothes and gifts for their sons.
Cows, goats, sheep, and chickens stand ready for ceremonial slaughter, symbolizing the welcome of these young men into their families. As we wish all qualified young boys a successful initiation school in 2023, we hope they return not only stronger and responsible but also equipped with a profound understanding of right and wrong.
