Celebrated actress Zinzi MaNteyi Nsele, known for her roots in Mpondoland, took to Facebook on December 23 to share the difficult news of her decision to end her marriage. In an emotional post, Zinzi expressed gratitude to those who have supported her and explained her reasons for making the announcement public.
“I would like to thank each and every one of you for the support, phone calls, and messages. Please be assured that I am okay, my people,” she wrote, before stating her intention to delete the post after its message had reached those it was intended for.
A Message of Strength and Courage
Nsele addressed criticism from some who questioned her decision to share such personal matters on social media, explaining that her role as a public figure necessitated transparency.
“For years, I remained silent, covering up and pretending everything was fine because of ‘abantu bazothini’ [what will people say],” she wrote. Nsele acknowledged the cultural pressures to maintain appearances but shared that this journey has taught her the importance of prioritizing her own well-being and that of her child.
Gratitude to Family and Friends
The actress extended heartfelt thanks to her family, particularly her twin sister and elder siblings, who she said have provided unwavering support throughout her struggles.
“I have learned that no matter how much you portray the best image of your marriage, your family sees right through you,” Zinzi reflected. She also expressed deep appreciation for her sisters-in-law, whom she described as a source of unexpected friendship and love, as well as close friends who stood by her during difficult times.
A Message to Women in Similar Situations
In her post, Zinzi shared a poignant message for women enduring toxic marriages in silence.
“To all the women who are silently sitting in toxic marriages because they are afraid to come out, I understand you. I pray that one day you also find the courage to be selfish with yourself. Kids want a happy mom, believe me,” she wrote.
Looking Ahead
The actress concluded her post by wishing her followers a Merry Christmas and a peaceful 2025.
Zinzi’s sincere revelation has sparked conversations about the challenges women face in toxic relationships and the importance of self-care. Her bravery in sharing her story has resonated with many, further cementing her place as a source of inspiration for others navigating similar struggles.
